I just finished reading "Life Swap" yesterday. It's quite good and I did enjoy reading this book. Well, I had questions myself after put the book down is that "If I have a chance to swapping live with someone for a month, who will be that person?"
&
the answer is that
"Victoria Edwards"
I do really want to swap life with her for a month. I need to know how I feel when I turn back and see Steve is beside me in the morning. I need to know exactly who Steve really is. I need to know the feeling of being a wife and mother. I need to know the feeling that there has someone share a part of my life. I need to know that I do really want to be taken or not. And I need to know that in fact what kind of live do I really want? A single or taken.
Yesterday was a discuss day for me and Steven. We talked about having a baby and being good parent. I need to ask one question for you all.
"If you married with wrong person and you can't live with him/her no more. You quarrel each other every single day and your kids see what bad situation you're in, what should you decide to do?"
your choices are
1) You will live with your hub/wife as a family, pretending that you love each other and wait unitl your children grow up enough that they cnatake care of themselves,but while you're living together you never ever be happy at all. When your kids grow up then you decide to go separate and live on your own.
2) You decided to go separate way with your hub/wife and live on your own. But both of you help each other take care of your kids, when both of you have a spare time, you go somewhere to relax and stay together as a family for a week or so.
You will choose the first or second choice?
For me, I choose the second, I can't pretend to live as a family, and I am not happy at all. Can you control yourself when you quarrel with your hub/wife? For me, I can't do that If I hate someone or didn't love him no more, I can't stay with him for a second!
But
Steve choose the first choice, he told me the reasonthat "Children is the most important, and he will live as a family with his wife even he doesn't love her no more".
There is no one "Right or Wrong" for this situation. But I thought you must choose the best choice for you and your kids. Am I a horrible mother? LOL
'til death do us part.
*Puk*
